Lesson #2: No More Wasted Time

Wasted Time

I struggle to think of anything that irritates me more than knowing that I have wasted time.  In Confession #2: Peer Pressure, I shared that I experimented with menu planning because "everyone is doing it."  Well, I'm sorry I did because it was wasted time and a lot of extra work.  Not saying you shouldn't - that would be peer pressure ;)

Problem Solved

Instead of spending all afternoon on a menu I may or may not abide by or even look at, here's what I used that time for:

• Cleaned out the refrigerator
• Took grocery inventory
• Got dinner done early
• The kitchen is clean and ready for in the morning
• Wrote this post
• Made a rough schedule for the week
• Spent quality home ec time with the girls
• Did an extra load of laundry
• Cleaned the bathroom
• Worked on homeschool plans

I think there were a couple other things, but you get the idea.  I got rid of one thing that was wasting my time and I cut loose on other more productive things.

What are some things that aren't working for you? 

Confessions of a Cluttered Kitchen: Peer Pressure

Confession #2: Everybody's Doing It

In my quest to conquer the kitchen, I found myself in need of inspiration.  I've been perusing blogs of moms who have it together, and soaking up good ideas from Country Living and Better Homes and Gardens. 

I can't get enough of the great design ideas in the magazines.  They spark creativity and motivate me.  But if I read one more post about menu planning...

I have good intentions when it comes to meal planning:  every week I spend hours trying to piece together a menu of tasty dishes for the least amount of money.  Then I don't follow through.  Sometimes on purpose.

The Problem

I've given myself another time consuming task to procrastinate on, and I feel like in order to run a successful kitchen I must have a menu plan-because that's how all successful moms do it, isn't it?  

The Lesson

I need to face what isn't working, and menu planning doesn't work for me.

The Solution 

• 86 the menu plan and all it's time and space consumption.
• Return to my trusty method of purchasing ingredients and cooking creatively
• Find a productive use for this freed up time

There is a lot of great advice out there, and trying new methods is great.  I let peer pressure cause me to doubt my instincts though: my original way of feeding us and minimizing the grocery bill worked for us.  I had no reason to change it.  

Is there something about your home management plan that differs from the majority or what the experts think?  Tell me about it!

Mrs. Redd

Lesson #1: The Way to a Kitchen's Heart is Through Your Stomach

Needs Vs. Wants

In Confession #1, I  realized I needed to change my perspective to look at my cluttered kitchen as a learning opportunity.  I'm starting with a review of needs and wants with the kids, then we will get specific and apply it.

This is what we need in our kitchen:

• More of what we need to eat and less of what we don't (quality and quantity)
• Organization & functionality
• Teamwork

Tummy Troubles

Instead of the kitchen being a source of comfort and nourishment, ours is causing indigestion.  I feel like there should be a big OUT OF ORDER sign stuck to the kitchen doorway right now.  

I never said seeing this as an opportunity was going to be easy.

To be continued...

Mrs. Redd

Confessions of a Cluttered Kitchen

Confession #1: The Dark Side

I'm normally an optimistic person, but housework brings out the worst in me.  Disorganization drives me batty.  

Right now, my kitchen (and the rest of the homestead) is in complete disarray.  Previous moves were into empty homes where the task was simple:  fill the place with our stuff and organize it how I want.  This time, it's our household on top of my mother's lifetime of accumulations.

Last night while planning for today, I decided my goal for this week was to get the kitchen under control.  I made a list of annoyances and promised myself I would have them all checked off by Sunday next.  

The Problem

My list is everything that is wrong with my kitchen.  When I pulled out my list this morning, I recoiled and immediately went into procrastination mode-putting off the ugliest tasks until later in the week.  My post-coffee motivation and excitement for the beautiful day had vanished.

The Lesson 

Last night I was being ungrateful.  This morning, that ungratefulness sprouted into procrastination.  What I have ended up with is a recipe for a bitter end to our week:  a stressed out mama and wife, unhappy kids and husband, and a goal not met.

The Solution

• Scratch the Irritations List.  Make an Opportunity List. (What does my kitchen have to offer?)
• This is a Home Ec project I can include my daughters in.  Looking at things as a learning opportunity for the kids is like putting on a pair of rose colored glasses for me.
• Remember the why.  My greater purpose behind it all is to create a better life for everyone involved.

In other words, I need to look at the bright side.

Do you have a confession to make about your homesteading journey?  It's your turn to share!

Happy Homesteading!

Mrs. Redd

Welcome to My Kitchen!

I've finally got a kitchen of my own.  It's mine. I can do with it what I please, and I finally have that settled feeling knowing I'm planted.

Speaking of planted, this is also our first REAL garden.  We have made attempts in the past, but never had a garden to speak of.  We are learning, for sure, but we have already harvested a few green beans and nothing has died on us yet.

After I put away that first mess of green beans, I was so excited I kept opening the freezer to look at my first bit of homegrown bounty.  I can only imagine what it will be like to see the freezers and cupboards full of the food we raised, but it is a wonderful feeling. It's  freedom.

But I don't just own this kitchen.  It is part of me.  It sits in the house I grew up in, and looks out over the garden my father planted.  It is the kitchen he baked all my birthday cakes in.

Now my father's homestead will be part of his grandchildren's heritage.

Welcome to my kitchen!  It needs a little work so excuse the mess.  I'd love to hear about your kitchen, so please share!

May your cupboards always be full and meals never burnt!

Mrs. Redd